| Location | West Bromwich |
| Age | 1 day |
| Date of Birth | 05/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 5,109 since 18/12/2007 |
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Terry was born on 05/07/2007 by emergency c-section sadly my precious son went to play with the angels just 12hrs and 57 mins later on 06/07/2007 he lived in west bromwich with his mom dad and his 5 big sisters chantelle (10yrs) nicole (8yrs) megan (5yrs) leah and bethany (2 yrs).
Terry was born 13 weeks premature and weighed only 1lb 6oz however he was perfect and this was not the reason for his death all i knew the night he was dying was he had a bleed some where in his tummy because that is all the doctors had told me. At 01:03 my son fell asleep for ever and became the most brightest of stars ever that is the saddest day of my life the nurse who looked after us at the hospital was very caring her name was norma she was the best along with louise who had stayed passed her finish time to look after my son as he was so poorly and also came with us to the chapel of rest to say goodbye to him. I agreed to a post mortom because i wanted to know why my much longed for son had died anyway i found out after 19 long hard waiting weeks that my son had died from a subcaptual haematoma of the liver (ruptured liver) basicly someone/or some how made my sons liver bleed. Then from requestng his medical notes i have now found out not only did this happen to him but he was ventilated with the wrong size tube it was to small to help him his umbilical lines were in the wrong positions he had a collapsed lung and no-one informed me of this and his liver rupture was not picked up quickly enuff and if it was he could have possibly survived how can this happen in todays world is all i can think of but im not stupid i know things like this happen but you never think it will happen to you or someone close to you. My bright star was burried on 30/07/2007 and even though only my sisters and my other half saw him alive there was loads of ppl at his funeral which im glad of now at the time i didnt understand why so many ppl wanted to come they didnt know him they didnt even see Terry so why would they wanna come i also couldnt see any point in giving my baby a name i gave this task to his dad (robert) and Terry was named after the chelsea football player John Terry. since our baby was taken from us it doesnt get any easyer well not for me any way i havent realy slept properly since Terry died i either think i see him or ear him cry i have been trawling the internet for some information on ruptured livers in the neonate but cant seem to find anythink so if any of you out there can email me the details please only the doctors who were treating my son have told me that it was just \\\'bad luck\\\' this happend but i cant accept that there must be a reason why his liver ruptured.
i still realy miss you son i know you are safe with nanna king she will look after you for me untill we meet again big hugs and kisses off me daddy and your sisters see ya soon xxxxxxxxxxx
just a message to every one who has lit a candle or left a message
thanks so very much means alot to me
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04/11/2008 today was ur inquest hunny i had hoped to get some answers has to why this happened to u but im still none the wiser now the coroner has ruled that in his view nothing could have been done to save u but still he didnt no how ur liver became ruptured. well we all no babe so we will have to soldier on drawing extra strengh from our memories of u to keep going when the civil case comes to court hun maybe then the truth will come out because the inquest for me didnt cover all aspects which should have been covered. mommy and daddy are very upset we feel that after waiting for 15 months and 29 days we are still none the wiser as to why ur life was ended due to liver rupture, i cannot accept that 'it just did' thats no answer to me everything happens for a reason and all i can promise u terry is that i will fight them all the way to get the answers that i need and want even if it takes me till the day i die and get to be with u i will keep fighting for the truth
i love u always will
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merry xmas son
hiya little man only just been able to get onto this site didnt want u thinking i wasnt thinking about you i hope u had a great xmas darling and i hope u liked all ur pressies ur brother and sisters got for u and ur lovely flowers ppl brought for u gave ur garden a good tidying up but left a little for dan to do cos i know he likes to tidy u up we never stop thinking of u babe i always wonder about what ur doing with ur angel friends ive got to go now babe going to nanny morris's for tea oh what fun this will be with all the kids and bob love u lots like jelly tots xxxxxxxxx merry xmas 2011xxxxxxxxxxx
happy xmas precious Terry
Just sending our xmas wishes another on. How fast has this year gone babe, you would be so excited with all your sisters and dexter waiting for santa to come into your mad house. Terry aunty sue has been to leave you some xmas presants in your special garden today babe. hope you have loads of fun.
Miss you more and more every year. love you as always
Aunty Sue, Uncle Trev, Charlotte Aaron Daniel. xxxxx
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morning babe
Just a little message to say, still thinking of you terry, hope your having loads of fun with all your new friends. we off on our hols for a week, please send us some sunshine down.
love you always and forever. xxx
Aunty Sue xxx
hello big boy
Hope you had a fab party yesterday, Did you get thoses sweets i left you on your beautiful garden. You had loads of birthday presants Terry, you need to water those plants in the converse planter that i bought you. hope your balloons still bouncing off that dragon fly, cus i dont like dragon flies as you know, got your daddy to tie it on to there for you. your cards were lovely to. this is the worst 2 days of our lives terry, cus you should be here with us babe not where you are now. love you forever babe, see you soon Aunty sue xxxxxx
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HAPPY 4TH BIRTHDAY TERRY
Hiya Babe,
Just sending our birthday wishes to you on you special day, Hope you are going to have plenty fun up there babe with ur your mates, bet nanny king is baking you a cake to share with everyone. Im bring you your cards and presants up after work, i have left some sweets for your sisters aswell, God only know what you would be doing in that mad house with your sisters lol, you would be up the garden all the while with daddy playing wba v chelsea, and yes baggies wud win every time.
Im going now bab cus im getting all upset and i will see you later dont forget.
sending millions of birthday kisses to you from us all.
bye xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love you forever precious xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Aunty Sue, Uncle Trev,Charlotte, Aaron & Daniel xxxxxxx
ღ ღ ღ All My Love Beautiful Angel ღ ღ ღ
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How will heaven be?
As far as I can see
It will have huge bells
And will be situated on clouds
It will have many golden wells
That will so often swell
Rain will be abundant
And the sun will shine all day long
Angels will play on the harp
The sweetest summer song
Music that will touch the heart
While those beneath will shed drops of sorrow
Little will they know what will happen on the morrow
But to them up above
As plain and clear it will be
As far as far as I can see
Yes there will be misty alleys
And lush green meadows
Fresh with the fragrant smell of spring
Winter will never be bitter
Summer never so hot
Autumn never so bare
And resources never so scarce
Food for all will be relished by all.
Grateful we’ll be as grateful can be
Mountains high and strong and brown
Surrounding that hidden land,
Beautiful and vast seas I see
There colour as blue as sapphire can be
And the white waves lashing upon the shore
Sitting on the flattened grey rocks
Who would not call it absolutely heavenly?
However it might actually be,
But can we still not see
There will lie behind this seen
A relieving feeling of bliss
For where not have we been
But is this not by all believed
That after one’s decease
This is the land of eternal peace
Where we all ultimately reach?
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happy 4th birthday son xxx
happy 4th birthday son can not beleive its been 4 yrs since u were born still feels like yesterday even thou so much has happened in these 4 yrs im sure u have a good day planned with ur angel friends hope u dont make to much mess at ur party ur sisters still talk about u loads we am coming to see u later so just u be ready for the arguments over whos fetching ur water whos wiping ur special stone clean ...lol send lots of sun down because megan is on a school trip make sure she has a lovely day im going now im upset see ya later my little man xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
ello aunties lil man
ello bab so srry havent bee on for long time but it hurts so much m8, bin watchin this baby hospital brings back so many memories bab, ur lil brther is doin well and so are ur big sisters the twins are lil devils lol into everythin well im going to bed now bab come see u soon cos its ur birthday in 7 days wow bet ur having ur own lil party with all ur friendsxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Deb luv u loads d loads and always willxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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