| Location | West Bromwich |
| Age | 1 day |
| Date of Birth | 05/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,386 since 18/12/2007 |
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Terry was born on 05/07/2007 by emergency c-section sadly my precious son went to play with the
angels just 12hrs and 57 mins later on 06/07/2007 he lived in west bromwich with his mom dad and
his 5 big sisters chantelle (10yrs) nicole (8yrs) megan (5yrs) leah and bethany (2 yrs).
Terry was born 13 weeks premature and weighed only 1lb 6oz however he was perfect and this was not
the reason for his death all i knew the night he was dying was he had a bleed some where in his
tummy because that is all the doctors had told me. At 01:03 my son fell asleep for ever and became
the most brightest of stars ever that is the saddest day of my life the nurse who looked after us at
the hospital was very caring her name was norma she was the best along with louise who had stayed
passed her finish time to look after my son as he was so poorly and also came with us to the chapel
of rest to say goodbye to him. I agreed to a post mortom because i wanted to know why my much
longed for son had died anyway i found out after 19 long hard waiting weeks that my son had died
from a subcaptual haematoma of the liver (ruptured liver) basicly someone/or some how made my sons
liver bleed. Then from requestng his medical notes i have now found out not only did this happen to
him but he was ventilated with the wrong size tube it was to small to help him his umbilical lines
were in the wrong positions he had a collapsed lung and no-one informed me of this and his liver
rupture was not picked up quickly enuff and if it was he could have possibly survived how can this
happen in todays world is all i can think of but im not stupid i know things like this happen but
you never think it will happen to you or someone close to you. My bright star was burried on
30/07/2007 and even though only my sisters and my other half saw him alive there was loads of ppl at
his funeral which im glad of now at the time i didnt understand why so many ppl wanted to come they
didnt know him they didnt even see Terry so why would they wanna come i also couldnt see any point
in giving my baby a name i gave this task to his dad (robert) and Terry was named after the chelsea
football player John Terry. since our baby was taken from us it doesnt get any easyer well not for
me any way i havent realy slept properly since Terry died i either think i see him or ear him cry i
have been trawling the internet for some information on ruptured livers in the neonate but cant seem
to find anythink so if any of you out there can email me the details please only the doctors who
were treating my son have told me that it was just \\\'bad luck\\\' this happend but i cant accept
that there must be a reason why his liver ruptured.
i still realy miss you son i know you are safe with nanna king she will look after you for me untill
we meet again big hugs and kisses off me daddy and your sisters see ya soon xxxxxxxxxxx
just a message to every one who has lit a candle or left a message
thanks so very much means alot to me
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04/11/2008 today was ur inquest hunny i had hoped to get some answers has to why this happened to u
but im still none the wiser now the coroner has ruled that in his view nothing could have been done
to save u but still he didnt no how ur liver became ruptured. well we all no babe so we will have to
soldier on drawing extra strengh from our memories of u to keep going when the civil case comes to
court hun maybe then the truth will come out because the inquest for me didnt cover all aspects
which should have been covered. mommy and daddy are very upset we feel that after waiting for 15
months and 29 days we are still none the wiser as to why ur life was ended due to liver rupture, i
cannot accept that 'it just did' thats no answer to me everything happens for a reason and all i can
promise u terry is that i will fight them all the way to get the answers that i need and want even
if it takes me till the day i die and get to be with u i will keep fighting for the truth
i love u always will
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hi babe difficult day again today hope ur ok up there with ur angel friends 28months have passed still feels like yesterday for me will it get any better babe i hope so miss u loads and loads sending u my love and kisses also from ur daddy and sisters see ya later xxxxxxxxxxx
our terry
Hello Babe,
Not been on here for ages but i tell you your never out of my thoughts babe, your still my precious Terry. God What would you be doing now!!!!!
I know you would be running rings rounds ya mom n dad and all your beautifull sisters
Terry.
Cant beleive how time goes so fast babe.
LOVE A MISS YOU ALWAYS XX
AUNTY SUExxxxxxxxxxxxx
ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
missing u still after 27 months doesnt get any easyer xxxxxxxxxxx ur twin sisters have started school and they love it but i guess ur watching over us all so u no already
hiya my little star just to let u no im still thinking of what could have been thanks for the lovely weather we had on our holiday ur sisters had a great time this week on the beach doing sand castles and at night they saw u shine so bright beth pointed u out to me she said mommy mommy look terry's there bless her they no all about u they still kiss u goodnight every night as i do 26 months old what a big boy u would have been by now miss u more and more sleep tight see ya tomorrow xxxxxxxxx
missing u
hi my darling mommy not so good right now 25months have gone by now and still no answers im still fighting for u i will never give up as long as i live no matter what any 1 says i no u didnt just die cos u were born early i wont rest until i prove all those stupid dr,s rung well at least im 1 step closer now u no what im on about send extra love to ur nanny and gradad tickle tonight as they need it after lossing max today and tess last month look out for them they were specail just like you going now cos im upset speak to u soon see ya later with some nice flowers xxxxxxxx
love ya babe
Hiya Terry,
Its been a very long hard 2 years babe since we laid you to rest, alot has happend since then but i never ever go by on single day Terry without thinking of you my precious nephew xx. God I only wish you were here with us today, you would be running around with your sisters and roxy in your garden. Hope you have made lots of nice friends up in heaven mate, Going know love you forever. Love
Aunty sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2yrs since i last saw u
hiya little man just thinking of you again lots today mommy didnt sleep very well again last night today i woke up to sunshine just like 2 yrs ago today that we layed you to rest in peace oh my im still fighting for you hun infact i have to go to solicitors nextweek to read all the medical expert reports has they are now back i hope they read what i want em to and maybe i can stop fighting and start grieving properly for you as i dont think i have at the moment. mommys been busy with ur sisters they havent been very well but they are getting better now nicole is down nanny tickles throwing slugs over the fence and chasing squirrels of grandads tomatoe plants but i guess you know that alreay looking out for us all as you do iwish i could see you up in heaven with all ur special friends spose id feel more content then but i guess ill have to wait till i join you when ever that day may be im going now because i ve got to get ur twins sisters ready to have their eyes checked and im upset also speak to you again soon hun will come see u this afternoon and fill ur special vases up love u as always mommy xxxxxxxxxxx
I STILL MISS YOU
This yearning in my heart
This confusion in my mind
The words left unspoken
Haunts me all the time
Everyday I watch pass by
With an emptiness in my life
And a hole in my heart
Where only you belong
There are nights I wake up crying
And wishing you were here
To hold me in your arms
And kiss away my tears
There is something that keeps me holding on -
What I'll never know
But one day things will go my way
And I'll have you in my arms
love from courtney's mommy xx
hi terry megans asked me to ask u to keep the sun shinning babe and twinkle brightly tonight
megans been looking for u but hasnt seen u shinning for a few nights she also wants to no if u liked her flowers yesterday xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
thankyou
to all of u who have left birthday messages and lit candles thankyou from bottom of my heart they all mean so much to me think im having one of those bad days again only seems to have lasted 4 days now why doesnt it get any easyer ? i wish i knew how to make things a little better but i dont missing u like mad right now terry i so so so wish u were here with me and the rest of ur family ud be a little heart breaker like u are now but for different reasons ur twin sisters started me off today because we are decorating i took ur picture down didnt wanna get paint on it and leah (little miss bossy) said to me 'mommy why have u took terry down we cant see him now or wave hello to him put it back on mirrow now) so i have done as i was told hun and put u back so ur sisters will say hello and goodnight tomorrow as usual oh gosh i have to go im so upset again cant see for crying chat to u soon babe see ya tomorrow at ur special garden xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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