| Location | West Bromwich |
| Age | 1 day |
| Date of Birth | 05/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,410 since 18/12/2007 |
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Terry was born on 05/07/2007 by emergency c-section sadly my precious son went to play with the
angels just 12hrs and 57 mins later on 06/07/2007 he lived in west bromwich with his mom dad and
his 5 big sisters chantelle (10yrs) nicole (8yrs) megan (5yrs) leah and bethany (2 yrs).
Terry was born 13 weeks premature and weighed only 1lb 6oz however he was perfect and this was not
the reason for his death all i knew the night he was dying was he had a bleed some where in his
tummy because that is all the doctors had told me. At 01:03 my son fell asleep for ever and became
the most brightest of stars ever that is the saddest day of my life the nurse who looked after us at
the hospital was very caring her name was norma she was the best along with louise who had stayed
passed her finish time to look after my son as he was so poorly and also came with us to the chapel
of rest to say goodbye to him. I agreed to a post mortom because i wanted to know why my much
longed for son had died anyway i found out after 19 long hard waiting weeks that my son had died
from a subcaptual haematoma of the liver (ruptured liver) basicly someone/or some how made my sons
liver bleed. Then from requestng his medical notes i have now found out not only did this happen to
him but he was ventilated with the wrong size tube it was to small to help him his umbilical lines
were in the wrong positions he had a collapsed lung and no-one informed me of this and his liver
rupture was not picked up quickly enuff and if it was he could have possibly survived how can this
happen in todays world is all i can think of but im not stupid i know things like this happen but
you never think it will happen to you or someone close to you. My bright star was burried on
30/07/2007 and even though only my sisters and my other half saw him alive there was loads of ppl at
his funeral which im glad of now at the time i didnt understand why so many ppl wanted to come they
didnt know him they didnt even see Terry so why would they wanna come i also couldnt see any point
in giving my baby a name i gave this task to his dad (robert) and Terry was named after the chelsea
football player John Terry. since our baby was taken from us it doesnt get any easyer well not for
me any way i havent realy slept properly since Terry died i either think i see him or ear him cry i
have been trawling the internet for some information on ruptured livers in the neonate but cant seem
to find anythink so if any of you out there can email me the details please only the doctors who
were treating my son have told me that it was just \\\'bad luck\\\' this happend but i cant accept
that there must be a reason why his liver ruptured.
i still realy miss you son i know you are safe with nanna king she will look after you for me untill
we meet again big hugs and kisses off me daddy and your sisters see ya soon xxxxxxxxxxx
just a message to every one who has lit a candle or left a message
thanks so very much means alot to me
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04/11/2008 today was ur inquest hunny i had hoped to get some answers has to why this happened to u
but im still none the wiser now the coroner has ruled that in his view nothing could have been done
to save u but still he didnt no how ur liver became ruptured. well we all no babe so we will have to
soldier on drawing extra strengh from our memories of u to keep going when the civil case comes to
court hun maybe then the truth will come out because the inquest for me didnt cover all aspects
which should have been covered. mommy and daddy are very upset we feel that after waiting for 15
months and 29 days we are still none the wiser as to why ur life was ended due to liver rupture, i
cannot accept that 'it just did' thats no answer to me everything happens for a reason and all i can
promise u terry is that i will fight them all the way to get the answers that i need and want even
if it takes me till the day i die and get to be with u i will keep fighting for the truth
i love u always will
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★ ★ Tiny stars, shining bright, it's time for me to say 'Goodnight.' So, close your eyes, and snuggle up tight, I'm wishing you sweet dreams tonight. ★ ★
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TIME NEVER HEALS BABE
MORNING OUR PRECIOUS TERRY,
HOPE YOU HAD A LOVELY 2ND BIRTHDAY YESTERDAY WITH ALL YOUR FRIENDS UP IN HEAVEN, HOPE YOU HAD A REALL GOOD PARTY, AND NANNY KING BAKED YOU A BEAUTIFULL CAKE TO SHARE WITH ALL UP THERE. I DID COME UP YESTERDAY AND LEAVE YOU YOUR CARDS AND BIRTHDAY PREZZY, THOUGHT YOUD LIKE SOMETHING FOR YOUR GARDEN, AS YOU CAN SEE IM ALWAYS IN MINE. HOPE YOU LIKE YOUR WATER CHERUB I HAVE PUT IN MY GARDEN TERRY, EVERY TIME I LOOK OUT MY GARDEN THATS HOW I THINK OF YOU, YOURE RIGHT THERE WITH US. I WILL BE UP LATER WITH SOME FLOWERS TO PUT WITH ALL THE OTHER SPECIAL STUFF YOU HAD. ITS SO SO HARD AT THIS TIME OF YEAR BABE, GOD ONLY KNOW WHAT YOU WOULD BE DOING NOW WITH ALL YOUR BEAUTIFULL SISTERS, WELL IM GETTIMNG REALLY UPSET NOW TERRY SO SEE YA LATER BABE, BY THE WAY PLEASE SAY HELLO TO NANNY MORRIS CUS SHE IS COMING ASWELL.
LOVE YA BABE XXXXXXXXXXXXX AUNTY SUEXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX LOVES YA FOREVER N EVER XXXXXXXX
lillie and matilda cains mummy x x
your such a sweety, you were born at the same age as my identica triplet girls, and i no how sad your mummy feels i no she missis you everyday anf thinks about you all the time coz thats how i feel about my girls, i hope you 3 are playing together and helping eachother with your special angel jobs x x x x x night god bless x x triplets mummy x x x
A Birthday In Heaven - Author Unknown
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel xxx
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Happy 2nd Birthday Precious
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU TERRY, A BIG 2 TODAY.
WILL BE UP LATER TODAY WITH UR CARDS TERRY AND A A SMALL BUT NICE PREZZY FOR YOUR GARDEN. MISS YOU STILL LOADS, STILL THINK OF YOU DAY AND NIGHT. WHAT YOU WOULD BE DOING TODAY IF YOU WERE HERE MATE. RUNNING RINGS ROUND US ALL. HAVE FUN WITH YOUR FRIENDS UP THERE.
C YA LATERS PRECIOUS
LOVE AUNTY SUE N FAMILY.
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happy 2nd birthday
hiya my little man just popping by to say happy birthday to you a very big 2yrs old today hope u like all ur nice prezzies that ur family have brought for you mommy and daddy will see you later on today with our prezzie miss you more everyday that goes by
happy birthday to you
happy birthday to you
happy birthday to terry
happy birthday to you
love u always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx mommy and daddy and all ur big sisters xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
The moment that you died
my heart was torn in two,
one side filled with heartache,
the other died with you.
I often lie awake at night,
when the world is fast asleep,
and take a walk down memory lane,
with tears upon my cheeks.
Remembering you is easy,
I do it everyday,
but missing you is heartache
that never goes away.
I hold you tightly within my heart
and there you will remain.
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love from courtney's mommy xxxx
hiya little man hope u been a good boy playing nice with ur friends mommy still misses you very much 23months ago u were taken from me /us still feels like yesterday ur garden was lovely with the fresh flowers in all that lovely sun we have been having mommys been very busy mending sinks(ur dad broke) windows (chantelle broke) and painting grandads bedroom but all done now anyway u will be a big 2 soon i hope to have the medical reports back soon hunny im still fighting for justice for u see ya soon love mommy n daddy n all ur sisters xxxxxxxxxxxx
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