| Location | West Bromwich |
| Age | 1 day |
| Date of Birth | 05/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,409 since 18/12/2007 |
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Terry was born on 05/07/2007 by emergency c-section sadly my precious son went to play with the
angels just 12hrs and 57 mins later on 06/07/2007 he lived in west bromwich with his mom dad and
his 5 big sisters chantelle (10yrs) nicole (8yrs) megan (5yrs) leah and bethany (2 yrs).
Terry was born 13 weeks premature and weighed only 1lb 6oz however he was perfect and this was not
the reason for his death all i knew the night he was dying was he had a bleed some where in his
tummy because that is all the doctors had told me. At 01:03 my son fell asleep for ever and became
the most brightest of stars ever that is the saddest day of my life the nurse who looked after us at
the hospital was very caring her name was norma she was the best along with louise who had stayed
passed her finish time to look after my son as he was so poorly and also came with us to the chapel
of rest to say goodbye to him. I agreed to a post mortom because i wanted to know why my much
longed for son had died anyway i found out after 19 long hard waiting weeks that my son had died
from a subcaptual haematoma of the liver (ruptured liver) basicly someone/or some how made my sons
liver bleed. Then from requestng his medical notes i have now found out not only did this happen to
him but he was ventilated with the wrong size tube it was to small to help him his umbilical lines
were in the wrong positions he had a collapsed lung and no-one informed me of this and his liver
rupture was not picked up quickly enuff and if it was he could have possibly survived how can this
happen in todays world is all i can think of but im not stupid i know things like this happen but
you never think it will happen to you or someone close to you. My bright star was burried on
30/07/2007 and even though only my sisters and my other half saw him alive there was loads of ppl at
his funeral which im glad of now at the time i didnt understand why so many ppl wanted to come they
didnt know him they didnt even see Terry so why would they wanna come i also couldnt see any point
in giving my baby a name i gave this task to his dad (robert) and Terry was named after the chelsea
football player John Terry. since our baby was taken from us it doesnt get any easyer well not for
me any way i havent realy slept properly since Terry died i either think i see him or ear him cry i
have been trawling the internet for some information on ruptured livers in the neonate but cant seem
to find anythink so if any of you out there can email me the details please only the doctors who
were treating my son have told me that it was just \\\'bad luck\\\' this happend but i cant accept
that there must be a reason why his liver ruptured.
i still realy miss you son i know you are safe with nanna king she will look after you for me untill
we meet again big hugs and kisses off me daddy and your sisters see ya soon xxxxxxxxxxx
just a message to every one who has lit a candle or left a message
thanks so very much means alot to me
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04/11/2008 today was ur inquest hunny i had hoped to get some answers has to why this happened to u
but im still none the wiser now the coroner has ruled that in his view nothing could have been done
to save u but still he didnt no how ur liver became ruptured. well we all no babe so we will have to
soldier on drawing extra strengh from our memories of u to keep going when the civil case comes to
court hun maybe then the truth will come out because the inquest for me didnt cover all aspects
which should have been covered. mommy and daddy are very upset we feel that after waiting for 15
months and 29 days we are still none the wiser as to why ur life was ended due to liver rupture, i
cannot accept that 'it just did' thats no answer to me everything happens for a reason and all i can
promise u terry is that i will fight them all the way to get the answers that i need and want even
if it takes me till the day i die and get to be with u i will keep fighting for the truth
i love u always will
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my son
hiya litle man mommy just thought id pop by has i always do on this date 22 months gone by since we met each other doesnt get any easyer babe mommy and daddy took ur sisters on holiday last week thanks for making sure we all had a good time in the sunshine on the beach they all loved it just wished u were here i sent u a message in a bottle hope it finds u sometime :) ive been so busy since we got back with all the washing just about finished it all now and just have a little left to iron but that can wait.....lol anyway if its nice tomorrow i will come and see ya with ur special prezzies of holiday that i brought for u going now cos im getting upset again see ya soon love u always terry think about u all the time love mommy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
happy easter
happy easter babe hope u like ur special flowers love mommy and daddy ops and ur big sisters xxxxxxxxx
missing u like crazy still
hello little man i just cant sleep again was nice yesterday hope u like ur flowers sorry ur sisters were naughty but they did help tidy ur garden up and give ur stone a clean mommy been poorly again the last few months cant seem to shake it off dont no whats rung with me maybe im comming to join u? miss u like crazy still hun the pain only gets worse with each day that goes by been 21 months today u entered my life oooo what a handsome boy u would have been but a little devil also with ur sisters i bet were doing the garden up at the mo so keep sending the nice weather ur twins sisters love it in the garden leah just keeps letting the bloody dog out though it is funny to see ur daddy trying to catch roxy shes to fast for him he has to bribe her with biscuits ....lol i bet they will enjoy the beach this year ur bigest sister chantelle will be 11 this year and goes to big school shes looking forward to it thanks for daddys little win on the national at least hes got his breakfasts for next week ...lol mommys going now cos this music is making me upset yet again see you soon love mommy and daddy and all ur big sisters xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
HELLO PRECIOUS
HIYS BABE,
ITS BEEN A LONG TIME I HAVN'T LEFT YOU A MESSAGE, AUNTY SUE HAS NEVER MISSED A DAY TERRY SHE HASN'T THOUGHT OF YOU DARLING. I THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME, STILL DONT GET ANY BETTER BABE, DONT THINK IT WILL, WELL I HOPE YOU ARE WELL, YOU WOULD BE A BIG BOY NOW. CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT YOUR SISTERS WOULD BE DOING WITH YOU, HOW GROWN UP THEY ARE ALL KNOW. I WILL COME UP AND SEE YOU SOON. SO LOOK OUT FOR ME PLEASE.
LOVE YOU AS ALWAYS BABE.
LOVE AUNTY SUE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
hello my little star well guess youd be a big star by now 20months old today hey gosh how time flys by doesnt seem that long hun still miss you loads see you later babe
missing u more and more
hiya little man hows u hope ur great and having lots of fun in this snow ur sisters are lovingggggggggg it even the twins love it babe wish u were here with us making snowmen and snow balls which we throw at ur daddy when he gets back here he fell over yesterday trying to run away from them im still laffing at the site of it he was so wet i made him get undressed by the front door before i would let him in im naughty ay i things still the same hun miss u more every day that goes by thinking what would have been and how ill pop up the weekend and see ya ok going now by by how big u would have been now 19 months
love u mommy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
merry xmas babe
Hiya Terry,
Hope you like you christmas presants we brought for you yesterday babe,Uncle Trev tidied up your garden for you, what have u been doing having a xmas party with your friends. Hope you like the flowers nanny & grandad morris brought you. I got you somethink different this year. Is the snowman still playing on your garden. Daniel brought this for you Terry. Its so hard to see you there babe. Well im going know cos im getting really up set. Send some love to all your sisters and mom and dad cos they are all poorly. i had to be santa through the window to them. sending all my love as always.
Love aunty sue uncle trev charlotte aaron daniel xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love you forever terryxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
merry christmas 2008 son
wishing u a merry xmas terry hope u like ur special prezzies ur garden looks very nice with all the special gifts for u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx mommy daddy and all your big sisters
merry christmas terry
hello my little man just Cant beleive this will be our 2nd xmas without you i still think of you all the time and ear that special memory of your 1st cry ill never forget that wishing you were here with all of us to share the joys of xmas 2008 i know you will be in spirit im bringing your special prezzie up tomorrow hope you like it along with the other prezzies you get things dont get any easyer with time hun like every 1 says it does for me it seems to get harder your sister megan seem much better this week still not 100% but we r getting there the weather dont help. MERRY CHRISTMAS TERRY have a great day with your special angel friends you have made when you see santa dont forget to point our house out for your sisters mommys going now because shes very upset see you tomorrow little man love mommy xxxxxxxxxxxx
MERRY CHRISTMAS PRECIOUS
TO TERRY
MERRY CHRISTMAS angel in heaven
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_______________Merry Christmas
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_____________New Year To You For
____________2009... I Hope The New
___________Year Brings You Loads Of
__________Happiness And Lots Of Fun.
_________I Hope You Have A Nice Day On
________Christmas Day, Filled With Lots Of
_______Angel Time.......And Of Course Eating
______Lots Of Nice Foods, And Candies. I Hope
_____That Santa Is Good To You As Well And He
___Brings You Loads Of Presents On Christmas Day
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XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX XXXX All Our Love Aunty Sue Uncle Trev Charlotte Aaron Daniel XXXXXXXX
Love you forever Terry See ya Soon Darling Xxxx
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