| Location | West Bromwich |
| Age | 1 day |
| Date of Birth | 05/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,410 since 18/12/2007 |
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Terry was born on 05/07/2007 by emergency c-section sadly my precious son went to play with the
angels just 12hrs and 57 mins later on 06/07/2007 he lived in west bromwich with his mom dad and
his 5 big sisters chantelle (10yrs) nicole (8yrs) megan (5yrs) leah and bethany (2 yrs).
Terry was born 13 weeks premature and weighed only 1lb 6oz however he was perfect and this was not
the reason for his death all i knew the night he was dying was he had a bleed some where in his
tummy because that is all the doctors had told me. At 01:03 my son fell asleep for ever and became
the most brightest of stars ever that is the saddest day of my life the nurse who looked after us at
the hospital was very caring her name was norma she was the best along with louise who had stayed
passed her finish time to look after my son as he was so poorly and also came with us to the chapel
of rest to say goodbye to him. I agreed to a post mortom because i wanted to know why my much
longed for son had died anyway i found out after 19 long hard waiting weeks that my son had died
from a subcaptual haematoma of the liver (ruptured liver) basicly someone/or some how made my sons
liver bleed. Then from requestng his medical notes i have now found out not only did this happen to
him but he was ventilated with the wrong size tube it was to small to help him his umbilical lines
were in the wrong positions he had a collapsed lung and no-one informed me of this and his liver
rupture was not picked up quickly enuff and if it was he could have possibly survived how can this
happen in todays world is all i can think of but im not stupid i know things like this happen but
you never think it will happen to you or someone close to you. My bright star was burried on
30/07/2007 and even though only my sisters and my other half saw him alive there was loads of ppl at
his funeral which im glad of now at the time i didnt understand why so many ppl wanted to come they
didnt know him they didnt even see Terry so why would they wanna come i also couldnt see any point
in giving my baby a name i gave this task to his dad (robert) and Terry was named after the chelsea
football player John Terry. since our baby was taken from us it doesnt get any easyer well not for
me any way i havent realy slept properly since Terry died i either think i see him or ear him cry i
have been trawling the internet for some information on ruptured livers in the neonate but cant seem
to find anythink so if any of you out there can email me the details please only the doctors who
were treating my son have told me that it was just \\\'bad luck\\\' this happend but i cant accept
that there must be a reason why his liver ruptured.
i still realy miss you son i know you are safe with nanna king she will look after you for me untill
we meet again big hugs and kisses off me daddy and your sisters see ya soon xxxxxxxxxxx
just a message to every one who has lit a candle or left a message
thanks so very much means alot to me
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04/11/2008 today was ur inquest hunny i had hoped to get some answers has to why this happened to u
but im still none the wiser now the coroner has ruled that in his view nothing could have been done
to save u but still he didnt no how ur liver became ruptured. well we all no babe so we will have to
soldier on drawing extra strengh from our memories of u to keep going when the civil case comes to
court hun maybe then the truth will come out because the inquest for me didnt cover all aspects
which should have been covered. mommy and daddy are very upset we feel that after waiting for 15
months and 29 days we are still none the wiser as to why ur life was ended due to liver rupture, i
cannot accept that 'it just did' thats no answer to me everything happens for a reason and all i can
promise u terry is that i will fight them all the way to get the answers that i need and want even
if it takes me till the day i die and get to be with u i will keep fighting for the truth
i love u always will
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missing u 5/12/08 17 months
hiya little man 17 months today wonder how big u would be or small i still miss u hun mommy hasnt been up to ur special garden so much this month because ur mommy has been poorly with this nasty chest infection just wont go away wish it would anyway going now getting upset bye and all our love mommy daddy and ur sisters xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
so so hard
Hiya our precious Terry,
It gets very hard to write to you at the moment, still cannot get over the bloody inquest babe.x Didnt think that there was so many evil people in these professions looking after new borns, that can lie through their teeth to a coroner. Scum she is babe. But your fighting mommy and daddy will get to the bottom of all the lies mate, one day. Its getting near that time of year again when you should be really excited with all your beautiful 5 sisters. and I wont forget roxy aswell, waiting for santa to come. but I will be doing you something very special again Terry for you Special little garden.
Gotta go babe getting really upset again,
Will love you forever xxxxxxxxxxxx
Aunty suexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
God looked around his garden
and found an empty space
then he looked upon this earth
and saw your tired face
he put his arms around you
and lifted you to rest
gods garden must be beautiful
he only takes the best.
god bless you little soul terry. look after your mommy and daddy and sisters thay need you to look out for them at this very hard time.
love courtney's mommy xxx
Allo ma lil man
allo bab hope u wrappin up warm have been doin alot ov thinkin bout your inquest bab sommert still aint right im tellin u tht pathologist new more than wot he was sayin and tht paki bitch doctor well everybody new she was lyin thru her teeth. Not been very good since then really am missin u more and moree bab god nos wot u wud be doin or sayin now lol with them twins round u anyway am goin now nite nite babxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
just to say i love you and ur mommy
alrite tezza, hope um doin good m8 this is ya uncle nick, never had the chance to talk to u because all the things u wudnt understand. but hopefully thats all cum to an end, just cum to tell u and ur mommy i do love you both soooo much and im sorry for all the fings i have said and done, i know its too late but only wish i cud turn the times back. i'll light a candle for u buddy as long as u look after ur mommy n daddy coz they do and will never stop loving you, and none ov us will ever stop loving you either, love u kidda mwahhhhh xxxxxxxxxxxxx
so sorry and i havent given up ill still fight for the truth
hiya babes its been a very tuff day today because of what happened at ur inquest yesterday i just cant beleive it how many lies there were and even under oath they were still lieing 1 person in paticular (u know who u r) and so does every 1 else after seeing there performance just cant beleive they were allowed to get away with it every 1 in that room could see the lies u would have been 16 months old today i bet u would have been a stuning looking son well i dont guess i KNOW just miss u so much and hoped i could have given u some justice yesterday but im sorry it didnt work out like that hun but i wont give up EVER until the truth comes out i will have to wait till the civil case now i guess but i wont give up and i know u know i wont send all of us some extra special thoughts because we need them at this time.
hope u like ur flowers came and tidyed u up a bit today those trees keep leaving a nice mess for mom to clean up nan grandad and ali came also but i know u were watching over us im going now because i cant see to type anymore threw all my tears so i pop back tomorrow and light u a candle love u always xxxxxxxxxxx mommy
unbeleivable inquest babe.
Good evening our precious terry,
Yesterday should have been the day we could start and greive rite proppa bab, but still lies,lies,lies from the nhs. Dont woory Terry, the truth will deffo cum out real real soon, mommy and daddy must still keep up there strength to carry on, but knowing your brave mom she will never give up her fight for the bloody truth to come out. hope you are sending them lots and lots of loving every night babe, cus they send you it back. Hope you have seen your flowers in the garden i keep putting in your spot i have given you. i will try and get up to your special garden real soon terry. I havent stopped thinking about yesterday terry all day, naughty doctors lying through their teeth they were. Love you forever and always bab. love you and miss you aunty suexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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