| Location | West Bromwich |
| Age | 1 day |
| Date of Birth | 05/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,411 since 18/12/2007 |
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Terry was born on 05/07/2007 by emergency c-section sadly my precious son went to play with the
angels just 12hrs and 57 mins later on 06/07/2007 he lived in west bromwich with his mom dad and
his 5 big sisters chantelle (10yrs) nicole (8yrs) megan (5yrs) leah and bethany (2 yrs).
Terry was born 13 weeks premature and weighed only 1lb 6oz however he was perfect and this was not
the reason for his death all i knew the night he was dying was he had a bleed some where in his
tummy because that is all the doctors had told me. At 01:03 my son fell asleep for ever and became
the most brightest of stars ever that is the saddest day of my life the nurse who looked after us at
the hospital was very caring her name was norma she was the best along with louise who had stayed
passed her finish time to look after my son as he was so poorly and also came with us to the chapel
of rest to say goodbye to him. I agreed to a post mortom because i wanted to know why my much
longed for son had died anyway i found out after 19 long hard waiting weeks that my son had died
from a subcaptual haematoma of the liver (ruptured liver) basicly someone/or some how made my sons
liver bleed. Then from requestng his medical notes i have now found out not only did this happen to
him but he was ventilated with the wrong size tube it was to small to help him his umbilical lines
were in the wrong positions he had a collapsed lung and no-one informed me of this and his liver
rupture was not picked up quickly enuff and if it was he could have possibly survived how can this
happen in todays world is all i can think of but im not stupid i know things like this happen but
you never think it will happen to you or someone close to you. My bright star was burried on
30/07/2007 and even though only my sisters and my other half saw him alive there was loads of ppl at
his funeral which im glad of now at the time i didnt understand why so many ppl wanted to come they
didnt know him they didnt even see Terry so why would they wanna come i also couldnt see any point
in giving my baby a name i gave this task to his dad (robert) and Terry was named after the chelsea
football player John Terry. since our baby was taken from us it doesnt get any easyer well not for
me any way i havent realy slept properly since Terry died i either think i see him or ear him cry i
have been trawling the internet for some information on ruptured livers in the neonate but cant seem
to find anythink so if any of you out there can email me the details please only the doctors who
were treating my son have told me that it was just \\\'bad luck\\\' this happend but i cant accept
that there must be a reason why his liver ruptured.
i still realy miss you son i know you are safe with nanna king she will look after you for me untill
we meet again big hugs and kisses off me daddy and your sisters see ya soon xxxxxxxxxxx
just a message to every one who has lit a candle or left a message
thanks so very much means alot to me
xxxxxxxxxxx
04/11/2008 today was ur inquest hunny i had hoped to get some answers has to why this happened to u
but im still none the wiser now the coroner has ruled that in his view nothing could have been done
to save u but still he didnt no how ur liver became ruptured. well we all no babe so we will have to
soldier on drawing extra strengh from our memories of u to keep going when the civil case comes to
court hun maybe then the truth will come out because the inquest for me didnt cover all aspects
which should have been covered. mommy and daddy are very upset we feel that after waiting for 15
months and 29 days we are still none the wiser as to why ur life was ended due to liver rupture, i
cannot accept that 'it just did' thats no answer to me everything happens for a reason and all i can
promise u terry is that i will fight them all the way to get the answers that i need and want even
if it takes me till the day i die and get to be with u i will keep fighting for the truth
i love u always will
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remembering 5/9/08
hello little man missing u loads today just remembering u loads today i bet u think its funny all this rain u better be a goos lttle boy and send me some sunshine u little bugger been 14months since i had u doesnt seem that long ago still nuffin sorted yet for ur inquest hunny they dragging their feet about it wonder what u would be doing now i bet u would be walking by now for deffo and able to say momma and dadda just wished i could have heard it just once but im glad i heard ur cry when u were born i cherish that sound forever going now cos im upset speak to u soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hiya Precious
Bet you thought i had forgotton you. Terry i have been trying to get onto the site for two weeks now to leave you a message. Well i am here now so, How you doing babe i have so missed talking to you. Am you running round up there with all you little mates. How many goals have you scored, Hope your keeping dry because at the moment we having some really wet weather, but aunty sue is off on her holidays soon in some really really hot sunshine and Terry please please keep a watch over all of us and keep shining through. I will blow you a kiss at night when i see you shining at me. I dont ever stop thinking about you babe honestly, really really miss that you cant be here with all of our family and all you big sisters and your mommy and daddy, they really miss you too babe.
Going now Terry speak soon babex
Love you forever babex
Aunty suexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hello lil bruv
hello we all misin you we all luv you me and chantelle come and see you every week to say hello we love you. do you hear us talking to you, have fun playing with your friends, keep warm in this cold wether terry, love nicole xxxxx
hi again little man oh gosh been 13months today u were taken from me/us ur sisters are doin me head in they got 3 weeks left then back to school wohooooooo twins will be at school soon then i get more peaceful time with u send us some nice sunshine on saturday for megans birthday i still think about u loads of times every day and night i look for u shining b4 i go to bed i really really miss u so much still no news yet as to when ur inquest will be im still pestering them for a date just wish they would hurry up now im going now speak to u soon and i be up at the weekend to see u and tidy ur garden for u bye bye for now xxxxxxxxxxx
missng u
hiya babe just got back from baggies friendly with walsall we lost 2-0 what a load of crap .....lol been 13 months today that u came into this world gosh what would u be doing now walking?...talking?....eating solids but i bet u wood still ma tiny little lad got to go im getting upset still miss u like yesterday dont think any 1 else understands apart from us bye for now lot of love terry xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Precious Terry
Hiys babe, Havn't been on for a while Terry nor been up to see you babe, but i am always thinking of you bab. Aunty sue been really busy at work just lately but terry you never go out my thoughts and prayers. Hope your havving a gud time up there with all the angels bet you are running round now aint ya, hope you am gunna kick that football for when the season starts, cummon you baggies, cummon you chesea thats what you will be singing for mommy and daddy when we play each other. Aunty deb will hope you am supporting wba though terry, but dad knows you will have some chelsea moments aswell. I will try and get up next week babe to tidy your garden for you, i have a couple of days off from work. See you babe love you as always for ever terry,
Love aunty suexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
touched our hearts
after reading your story about your son and my brother inlaw dieing yesterday at the age of 72 it touched our hearts. to take someone from you just hours old it does make you wonder. but we do belive there is a meaning for everything in life.(so keep up the fight) and the lord above only takes the best,and he's playing with the angels now.god bless you all kay&pam.
missing u so very much
Anyone who's lost a child
Will know just how I feel
l also know that every day
The pain is very real
~~~~~~~~~~
My heart is broken sweetheart
For what i've loved and lost
I'd bring you back tomorrow
No matter what the cost
Our terry
Hiya Babe, Are you all tired out know after playing with your birthday prezzies you had, had you learnt to kick a football then now terry, we will see you i bet playing for the baggies soon, but your daddy will want you playing for chelsea, (boooooo) as megan would say, Hope you have sent your big sister some precious hugs because she is poorly at the minute, and we know you will be looking down on her to hurry up and get betta quickly. I will be up to your garden this week terry to have a spruce up for you. Love you forever babe, love and miss you always,
aunty suexxxxxxx
one lonely year today
Hiya again terry, its been one long lonely year today that you were taken from us, don't know how every one has got through the year, we all grive in our own way, but terry you are never ever out of my thoughts babe. just wish that you could be here with us, have you played with your toys you had for your birthday yesterday, theres plenty of toys on your pecial garden for you andmany many friends, hope you liked your flowers from us all, and your birthday cards and poems. well i gotta go terry, im getting really upset here just thinking what should have been. love you forever precious, love and kisses to you aunty sue uncle trev charlotte aaron daniel xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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