| Location | West Bromwich |
| Age | 1 day |
| Date of Birth | 05/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,411 since 18/12/2007 |
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Terry was born on 05/07/2007 by emergency c-section sadly my precious son went to play with the
angels just 12hrs and 57 mins later on 06/07/2007 he lived in west bromwich with his mom dad and
his 5 big sisters chantelle (10yrs) nicole (8yrs) megan (5yrs) leah and bethany (2 yrs).
Terry was born 13 weeks premature and weighed only 1lb 6oz however he was perfect and this was not
the reason for his death all i knew the night he was dying was he had a bleed some where in his
tummy because that is all the doctors had told me. At 01:03 my son fell asleep for ever and became
the most brightest of stars ever that is the saddest day of my life the nurse who looked after us at
the hospital was very caring her name was norma she was the best along with louise who had stayed
passed her finish time to look after my son as he was so poorly and also came with us to the chapel
of rest to say goodbye to him. I agreed to a post mortom because i wanted to know why my much
longed for son had died anyway i found out after 19 long hard waiting weeks that my son had died
from a subcaptual haematoma of the liver (ruptured liver) basicly someone/or some how made my sons
liver bleed. Then from requestng his medical notes i have now found out not only did this happen to
him but he was ventilated with the wrong size tube it was to small to help him his umbilical lines
were in the wrong positions he had a collapsed lung and no-one informed me of this and his liver
rupture was not picked up quickly enuff and if it was he could have possibly survived how can this
happen in todays world is all i can think of but im not stupid i know things like this happen but
you never think it will happen to you or someone close to you. My bright star was burried on
30/07/2007 and even though only my sisters and my other half saw him alive there was loads of ppl at
his funeral which im glad of now at the time i didnt understand why so many ppl wanted to come they
didnt know him they didnt even see Terry so why would they wanna come i also couldnt see any point
in giving my baby a name i gave this task to his dad (robert) and Terry was named after the chelsea
football player John Terry. since our baby was taken from us it doesnt get any easyer well not for
me any way i havent realy slept properly since Terry died i either think i see him or ear him cry i
have been trawling the internet for some information on ruptured livers in the neonate but cant seem
to find anythink so if any of you out there can email me the details please only the doctors who
were treating my son have told me that it was just \\\'bad luck\\\' this happend but i cant accept
that there must be a reason why his liver ruptured.
i still realy miss you son i know you are safe with nanna king she will look after you for me untill
we meet again big hugs and kisses off me daddy and your sisters see ya soon xxxxxxxxxxx
just a message to every one who has lit a candle or left a message
thanks so very much means alot to me
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04/11/2008 today was ur inquest hunny i had hoped to get some answers has to why this happened to u
but im still none the wiser now the coroner has ruled that in his view nothing could have been done
to save u but still he didnt no how ur liver became ruptured. well we all no babe so we will have to
soldier on drawing extra strengh from our memories of u to keep going when the civil case comes to
court hun maybe then the truth will come out because the inquest for me didnt cover all aspects
which should have been covered. mommy and daddy are very upset we feel that after waiting for 15
months and 29 days we are still none the wiser as to why ur life was ended due to liver rupture, i
cannot accept that 'it just did' thats no answer to me everything happens for a reason and all i can
promise u terry is that i will fight them all the way to get the answers that i need and want even
if it takes me till the day i die and get to be with u i will keep fighting for the truth
i love u always will
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SPECIAL BIRTHDAY BOY
Happy birthday our precious Terry, who's a big 1 today, hope you like all your special pressies and cards and flowers you have had from all the family, they are beautifull arn't they. i hope you are having a great big birthday party with all your friends up there. channy baked you a lovely cake terry. i will be up soon to see you again, love your forever babe,
aunty sue uncle trev charlotte aaron danielxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
happy 1st birthday
happy birthday to you
happy birthday to you
happy birthday dear terry
happy birthday to you
love mommy daddy chantelle nicole megan leah bethany and all the family xxxxxxxx lots of love and kisses xxxxxxxxx
lil man
allo lil man i come to see u today with ur nanny tickele and ali and daddy which wud have bin ur big 1 well to be honest to us it is ur big 1 today hope you like the things i bought u .
You had some lovely flowers and toys bab wish u was ere to play with em with us im missin u all the time and u wud luv ur twin sisters lol lil buggas they are.im going now m8y speak soon byexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hiya precious
Hiya terry, you special little boy. Ive heard you have had a big surprse, havnt been to see it yet but im coming on your birthday babe, its gunna be so so hard i hope you know, hope you have slept good in your new home babe, bet you have had some friends over aint ya, love you always terry, love aunty suexx be up next week precious to see you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hiya little man been up and saw u today brought u some fresh flowers cleaned ur garden up naughty trees keep leaving there leaves all over ur garden. Ur special prezzie came to day i no a week b4 ur birthday but at least is here now we hope u like it see u soon bye bye for now ill be looking for u tonight so shine brightly for me and daddy love u more and more xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hiya babe
Hello young man. i came up to see you on thursday, your garden was a bit of a mess terry, was you waiting for a gardener, i cleaned up most of your little mess babe, left the rest for you and your special friends to do. put you some new flowers in your vase terry, hope you enjoyed the summer smell of them. miss you more each day precious, coming u to your special day soon, we will all be there for you babe. bring you loads of prezzies. see you soon terry all my love forever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx aunty suexxxxxxx
missing u more each day
hello little man havent been for a while ur little sisters keeping me soooooooo busy its been 11 months today that u entered our life still havent got any answers my little man i will the hospital now know im serious because solicitor has finaly informed them we are suing them still no inquest date yet hunni (Dr's being naughty again) shouldnt be much longer now still think of you everyday more and more when these specail dates are commin up would u be walking or crawling or lazy like megan and just pull urself around like she did i bet u would still be in 3-6 month clothes event thou ur nearly one years old doesnt feel like its been that long just feels like yesterday all over again speak to usoon little man xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
missing you terry
If we could bring you back again
for one hour or day
we'd express all our unspoken love
we'd have countless things to say.
If we could bring you back again
we'd say we treasured you
and that your presence in our lives
meant more than we ever knew.
If we could bring you back again
to tell you what we should
you'd no how much we miss you terry
and if we could bring you back we would.
love you so much baby. you will always be my special little nephew. sleep tight xxxxxxxx aunty sue xxxxxxxx
miss you babe
hiya precious, how you doing today, i cant stop thinking of you today terry, all this week i have been talking about you to my friends at work, of what you would be doing, about chelsea not winning for your daddy and all his family in london, all the memories just there in my head. i will be up to your garden this week babe to bring some pretty flowers for you and your friends to smell. love you forever babe, aunty suexxx
love you terryxxxx
SOMEONE WHO CARES
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful angel Terry. My daughter Nataliya was born sleeping 30 Aug 07 I am still trying to mend a broken heart not that it can ever be fixed.
Nataliya special garden is at Heath Lane is your garden there also?
Sending you, your beautiful angel and family lots of love..... Denise proud mummy of Angel Nataliya and son Kieffer xx
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