| Location | West Bromwich |
| Age | 1 day |
| Date of Birth | 05/07/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,411 since 18/12/2007 |
| Creator |
Terry was born on 05/07/2007 by emergency c-section sadly my precious son went to play with the
angels just 12hrs and 57 mins later on 06/07/2007 he lived in west bromwich with his mom dad and
his 5 big sisters chantelle (10yrs) nicole (8yrs) megan (5yrs) leah and bethany (2 yrs).
Terry was born 13 weeks premature and weighed only 1lb 6oz however he was perfect and this was not
the reason for his death all i knew the night he was dying was he had a bleed some where in his
tummy because that is all the doctors had told me. At 01:03 my son fell asleep for ever and became
the most brightest of stars ever that is the saddest day of my life the nurse who looked after us at
the hospital was very caring her name was norma she was the best along with louise who had stayed
passed her finish time to look after my son as he was so poorly and also came with us to the chapel
of rest to say goodbye to him. I agreed to a post mortom because i wanted to know why my much
longed for son had died anyway i found out after 19 long hard waiting weeks that my son had died
from a subcaptual haematoma of the liver (ruptured liver) basicly someone/or some how made my sons
liver bleed. Then from requestng his medical notes i have now found out not only did this happen to
him but he was ventilated with the wrong size tube it was to small to help him his umbilical lines
were in the wrong positions he had a collapsed lung and no-one informed me of this and his liver
rupture was not picked up quickly enuff and if it was he could have possibly survived how can this
happen in todays world is all i can think of but im not stupid i know things like this happen but
you never think it will happen to you or someone close to you. My bright star was burried on
30/07/2007 and even though only my sisters and my other half saw him alive there was loads of ppl at
his funeral which im glad of now at the time i didnt understand why so many ppl wanted to come they
didnt know him they didnt even see Terry so why would they wanna come i also couldnt see any point
in giving my baby a name i gave this task to his dad (robert) and Terry was named after the chelsea
football player John Terry. since our baby was taken from us it doesnt get any easyer well not for
me any way i havent realy slept properly since Terry died i either think i see him or ear him cry i
have been trawling the internet for some information on ruptured livers in the neonate but cant seem
to find anythink so if any of you out there can email me the details please only the doctors who
were treating my son have told me that it was just \\\'bad luck\\\' this happend but i cant accept
that there must be a reason why his liver ruptured.
i still realy miss you son i know you are safe with nanna king she will look after you for me untill
we meet again big hugs and kisses off me daddy and your sisters see ya soon xxxxxxxxxxx
just a message to every one who has lit a candle or left a message
thanks so very much means alot to me
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04/11/2008 today was ur inquest hunny i had hoped to get some answers has to why this happened to u
but im still none the wiser now the coroner has ruled that in his view nothing could have been done
to save u but still he didnt no how ur liver became ruptured. well we all no babe so we will have to
soldier on drawing extra strengh from our memories of u to keep going when the civil case comes to
court hun maybe then the truth will come out because the inquest for me didnt cover all aspects
which should have been covered. mommy and daddy are very upset we feel that after waiting for 15
months and 29 days we are still none the wiser as to why ur life was ended due to liver rupture, i
cannot accept that 'it just did' thats no answer to me everything happens for a reason and all i can
promise u terry is that i will fight them all the way to get the answers that i need and want even
if it takes me till the day i die and get to be with u i will keep fighting for the truth
i love u always will
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Way up in heavens garden
There's a magical castle in the sky
Where god places our little angels,
And teaches them to fly
The girls become sweet princesses,
And dance the day away
The boys are charming prince's
In this wondrous land of play
The castle is made of lollipops
And of all things that are sweet
There's a river made of angels tears,
For them to dip their tiny feet,
The angel tears are not tears of sadness.
They are tears of joy
To see such sights is happiness
For the chosen Angel girl or boy
For as you know, not all angels
Are picked to grace this castle in the sky
Only the tiny cherub prince's and princesses,
And here's the reason why
God has a place for all he takes
And puts them where they he deems
The little cherubs need a world of play
A land filled full of dreams
A place where they can play all day
And slide down rainbows so bright
swing from the stars if they desire
Then light the star lamps up at night
Its now they huddle close together
And some may take a snooze
Only if they wish to
Its up to them to choose
The ones that are not asleep
Are sending down their love
To you, direct from moon beams
They guide from up above
So be happy for your special cherub
From the soft clouds they will never fall
For anything good that they may wish for
Comes true here, anything at all
Its in the castle they will stay
with angels of their kind
until its their turn to open the castle gate
and its their mummy that they find
The only thing that they must do then
whilst waving goodbye to angel friends
Is walk to paradise with mummy
Just beyond the rainbows end.
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These are my tiny footprints, so perfect and so small.
These tiny footprints, never touched the ground at all.
Not one tiny footprint, for now I have my wings.
These tiny footprints were meant for other things.
You will hear my tiny footprints, in the patter of the rain.
Gentle drops like angel tears, of joy and not from pain.
You will see my tiny footprints, in each butterfly's lazy dance.
I'll let you know I'm with you, if you give me just a chance.
You will see my tiny footprints, in the rustle of the leaves.
I will whisper names into the wind, and call each one that grieves.
Most of all, these tiny footprints, are found in Mummy's heart
Because even though I'm gone now, we'll never truly part.'
god bless all angels xx
missing u
ooooo my been 10 months today that u were cruely taken from us babes still havent got any answers as yet but we/i will dont u worry bout that did u ear ur sister singing twinkle twinkle to u onight she sang it so lovely megan looks for ur shinny star every night and she tells me there he is mom look up there bless her wish u were in my arms thou talk to u soon be happy play safe with ur angle friends see u soon
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love you terry
Hiya precious, 10 long lonely months of heartache for us all, think of you every hour of every day babe! you would be crawling around the floor now, babbling to us all, chuckling with your beautiful sisters chantelle, nicole,megan,leah, beth, you would probably be bouncing of the trampoline knowing the girls LOLxx. I placed you some fresh flowers in your vase today in my garden, i blow you a kiss every day looking out of the window terry. we will love you forever babe, did you hear aza singing to you on sunday night at the rugby club, he sang his heart out for you, he had a standing ovation, tears came to my eyes thinking of the words he sang. p.s. hope your keeping your garden tidy, see you son terry all my love and kisses aunty suexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx love you babe!xxxxxxxxx
hello precious
hiya babe, been to see you today, done your garden for you again terry. do you like it how i moved your pretty flower and toys. you keeping it really nice now terry are you playing with all those angels on there. Love and miss you millions babe, see you soon
love aunty suexxxxxxx
did you hear dan talking to you again today
love ya byeeeexxxx
love ya babe
Hello precious, how you doing mate! just cant stop thinking of you today terry, will be up to see you the weekend darling, im coming to check that you are keeping you garden tidy, did you see me doing ny garden today. hope you have had a good day today playing with your friends. see ya soon terry love you forever darling
love aunty suexxxxxxxxxxxx
missing u loads still
hello terry well its been 9 long months since u left us and went with all the other sweet angels we all still miss u loads and loads and loads were still waiting to find out who done this to u babe but dont worry i wont give in untill i do thanks for making ur sisters happy with ur special snow drops for them they made a snow man out of them i guess u can see it its brill time hasnt healed anythin for me like every 1 says it does guess will take more time any way going now see u again soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
just a little thankyou xx
hi thankyou for your kind words your little boy is just beautiful and like you say i hope ashton and terry are playing together of course there looking down on us they probley look and dont understand are sadness as there at peace and are no longer suffering its just us that suffer with the pain and heartache of not having them here we can tell are selfs till we are blue in the face that there in a better place but no the right place should be with us and probley like me youve been told things happen for a reason and then you question why me though why anybody everyday i wonder when its going to get better as i put on such a front to people but behind close doors im a state i just want to get to the point where i can think about ashton without my heart feeling its getting ripped out to rember him and smile i dont think i ever will anyway god bless to yourself family and most of all your beautiful son terry if you ever want to chat please dont hesitate to email me love nicola xxxx
allo babe
Afternoon precious,
Hope this wind and rain and snow aint making you to cold terry, you keep that tiny blanket wrapped up round you mate, aunty sue took special time making it fit you nice and snuggly. Hope you are making plenty of friends babe, and please get crawling round nanny kings legs terry so she can pick you up and give you a great big hug and kiss from me. I know you are always with her and she tucks you into bed every night babe. I came to see you last week and tidied your beautiful garden up terry, me and dannny put your garden flowers back in place because you have been grassed all over you special little boy. you look beatiful when i saw it. Wont be long again before i come to see you again babe.
Love you forever as always terry.
Love aunty suexxxxxxxxx
just to say...
your story is so sad .i cant read it properly for crying.thank you for your message u left . it means so much to know that people care. we as mothers should never have to feel this sort of pain we are going thru. lifes just not fair. i d like to think our babies are in heaven making friends and knowing that their mummys love them so so much x
our precious terry
Hello little man, how you doing up there babe, seen you shining down on your mommy yesterday on her special day, i know you sent her all your special love terry cos i got some from you aswell babe, you shone down on us all day long here. see you soon babe, ill be up to tidy your garden next week babe, missing you like crazy mate. got to go getting really upset here. kiss kiss babe
love you forever darling terry, be with you some day precious.
love you love aunty sue xxxxxxxxxx
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